Thursday, December 25, 2008

Mother of Mine

At noon on Christmas day, my mother passed peacefully away to be met by what must surely have been the largest wecoming committee heaven has ever seen. Here are some photos from the life of Lila Eunice Johansen, the greatest mother of all time.

Teddy

My mom lived on a farm as a child. They had several horses, and here she is on one named Teddy. She later had her own horse, Diablo, who apparently lived up to his name. She loved that horse, though, and talked about him constantly. I hope he is running around up there somewhere. She was counting on it.




Class of 1950

My mom liked to brag that she was the valedictorian of her graduating class. She usually left out the part about there being only six people in said class.



Cheerleading

My mom is from a tiny town in Eastern Washington called Nespelem, which lies within the Colville Indian Reservation. She and her best friend, Mary Katherine, were the only two cheerleaders at Nespelem High School, home of the "Savages." What can I say? It was the Fifties. Today, they are the Nespelem Eagles. Those dresses are real buckskin, by the way. Comfy!




December 9, 1951

My mother was in nursing school when she met a smokin' hot sailor named Rex Johansen. She dropped out of school and married him, which infuriated my grandmother. She wanted my mom to finish school and become a nurse, and this hot shot comes along and screws everything up. She refused to go to their wedding, and she hated my dad for years. All was forgiven when they named my sister Lee Ann after her.



Whidbey Island, WA

Soon after my parents got married, my father was transferred to the Naval base on Whidbey Island. While there, my dad became active again in the LDS church, and my mother, originally a Methodist, was baptized. Here they are with their first born, Michael, and Lee Ann on the way. They had just been sealed in the Idaho Falls Temple a few months before.



Haircuts to Remember



Whidbey Revisited

This was taken about 10 years ago during one of our little weekend jaunts back to Whidbey. My parents loved living on Whidbey Island. My father has some of the greatest stories about the time they spent there. Like how when he was in the Navy, there was one church building that was shared between all of the different religious groups on base. One Sunday, a couple of the primary kids found the communion wine from the Catholic service, and came home from church totally lit. Hilarious.



Singing Time

This is one of my favorite pictures. I love the big chubby ass sitting next to my niece's little tiny one. So cute. My mom only had three or four songs that she could plunk out on the piano, but she'd perform them every day in exactly the same order. One of them was Glenn Miller's "In the Mood." Another one was Perry Como's "'Til the End of Time," also known as Chopin's Polonaise in A flat major.



September 1995

This was taken the day I took out my endowments at the Seattle Temple. I love this picture of my mom and dad. My dad never smiles in pictures, so this is a rare treat.



Still Crazy After All These Years

Fifty-seven of them. They were such an odd couple. It's like Mrs. Claus and Ebeneezer Scrooge got married and actually made it work. Amazing.



Thanks for being my mom, mom. I love you.

14 comments:

Rebecca McAllister said...

I love you...I'll see you Tuesday evening.

amelia said...

love you, jo. wish i could be there for you right now.

turleybenson said...

Oh Randi. Thank you for this awesome tribute to your mom. Sending big big love your way.

Anonymous said...

Randeedo, so sorry to hear about your mom. We got to know her through your hilarious, heart- warming stories about her and Rex. And what a touching tribute to a wonderful woman and fantastic mother. You're in our thoughts.-- tim & becky

lilsusha said...

So sorry to hear Randi!! Sending love and peace your way. Great tribute to a beautiful woman. Thank you for sharing.

Anonymous said...

Randi. I am so sorry for you and for your dad and your whole family. I'm so sad for you. I wish we could be there with you to hug you and for you to know how much we love you. Scott is right now ready to book a plane ticket.

I am happy for you that you have had this time to spend with your mom and to take care of her. You will always be grateful for having made that choice.

I loved the post about your mom. Those were great pictures and it was fun to hear some tidbits about her life. I've always loved a good Eunice story. They are hilarious and endearing. She raised a daughter that is just the same.

Best of luck in the days ahead. Love you.

Kelly said...

Randi, I'm so sorry. I'm sending a lot of loving thoughts to you and your family. This is a lovely, funny tribute to her and I know that among the tears will also be a lot of laughter as you all remember her life.

Hugs and love.

Anonymous said...

Sorry to hear such happy and sad news. She seemed like quite a lady, and she's sure to be celestialized if she's the one responsible for your fantastic hair. Much love, Amanda and Dan

Tamlynn said...

I wish I could give you a big hug. I pray that you and your family will be comforted.

Bekah said...

Bless you, Randi. I will always consider it a great priviledge to have known the wonderful woman who raised you. My heart aches for you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

zeeny said...

So sorry to hear of your lose. I am so glad you have such great memories of your mom and I am sure she will be cheering you on from above! I hope the best for you and your whole family.

jkribbit said...

Randi, I'm so sorry to hear about your Mom. This post was a beautiful tribute - I'm so glad you have such great pictures and memories of her! Thank you for sharing them with us.

Jeni said...

Randi - I cried when I received your Christmas card letter and I'm crying again now. What sweet memories to share about your mom with all the rest of us. My grandfather passed away Christmas morning of 1995 at 8am. I thought I would dread every Christmas morning for the rest of my life, but in fact, the opposite has happened. I take a moment of quiet reflection, at the same time I am giving thanks for the birth of our Savior who will make all live again, to thank Heavenly Father for the birth and life of my sweet grandfather as well. I believe you will see Christmas day take on a newfound sense of reverence and meaning in the years to come. I guess now you know why you needed to leave Boston, a place I know you loved. These last years with your mom will be years to treasure for sure. There will be tears and grief in the days to come. There will be a period of adjustment for you and especially for your dad. Let those tears fall. Scream and cry and get it all out. Now, more than ever, I wish we could press AL and WA together so I could be there to just be there. I love you so much. Call me when you are ready. Book a plane ticket to Bama. There is PLENTY here in the south to make you laugh and cheer you right on up. The food ain't bad either. :) Love you.

Lady Bills said...

randi darling- i am so sorry for your loss. i always wished i could have met your mother- she sounds like the most amazing woman on the planet.

you are in my thoughts and prayers.