Monday, August 16, 2010

What I'm Made Of

We have these old genealogy books lying around our house, filled with some truly remarkable stories from the lives of my ancestors. Every few years I get the itch to open them up and remind myself just how unworthy I am to be numbered among their posterity, and how much I underappreciate the legacy of faith and general awesomeness that they left me.

In particular, I am struck by the awesomeness of my female ancestors.

There is my great-great-great grandmother, Eliza Gill Hartley. Recently widowed and recently converted to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Eliza packed up her 5 kids, left her home in Sheffield, England, sailed to America, and joined the Edward Martin handcart company. You Mormons out there know the rest of that story.

One of Eliza's granddaughters, Sarah Lucina Curtis, married Robert Augustus Snyder and had 14 children. After child number 12, Sarah went completely blind. She still managed to cook, clean, and run her household as before. She could tell her children apart by the sound of their footsteps. An excellent quilter, she learned to tell colors of fabric apart by their taste and smell. She knitted over 80 pairs of socks and 40 pairs of mittens for the soldiers in WW1. Blind. She was an absolute beast.

Here she is, 9 kids in and just getting warmed up. The little girl standing in front of her father is my dad's mom, Lillie Snyder Johansen.



Probably my favorite family photo comes from my mother's side. It is a photo of my great grandmother, Emma Jane Anthony. My mother said she was a hoot, and whenever I look at this picture I can't help but laugh. Here she is, holding my uncle Loren in one arm and some dead chickens in the other:



Now that is a woman who knows how to get s*** done. Do they even make women like this anymore? There is nothing she can't do. She is gentle and loving, capable and fearless. When life gets tough, I think of this photo and tell myself to snap out of it--to get in there and "pluck those chickens" as it were.

Diluted though it may be, the blood of these three women does still run through my veins. Oh, and the blood of one more great woman:



Big shoes to fill. I'd better get started.

7 comments:

Kam said...

Oh Randilish, you've been away too long. I didn't even know this gem of a post was here. But I love it. And I love those awesome stories. And I love you! I've seen Emma Jane's picture before, and loved it then just as much as I do now... incredible and inspiring, and hilarious, too! You're from good stock, Rand. I've always known it. Or, at least, for a long time, anyway! :)

Timo said...

This is an awesome, touching post. I am in awe of your ancestors and wish I knew more about mine. Loved the line "9 kids in and just getting warmed up." What inspiring tales to remember!

Quick question: Why the sudden caution and reluctance to not spell out s***? I've seen that one before (numerous times) on your blog!

Bekah said...

Well, now we all know where your legacy of spunk comes from. (Yes, I did consider correcting the grammar in that sentence, but it would have sounded completely ridiculous. I still seem to have some hang ups from that semester that you and Amy took that editing class and terrorized us all with red pens.)

What an amazing heritage of powerful women! I was stunned that Sarah could tell fabric colors by smell and taste. What does purple taste like? I'm sure it helped that her fabrics were probably dyed using natural materials instead of synthetic coloring, but STILL. I am overwhelmed by their awesomeness. And by yours.

Randi said...

Bekah--purple probably tastes like Purplesaurus Rex Kool-aid. So easy. Ol' Granny doesn't get any points for THAT one.

Timmy--I know, I know. I just thought I should try dial back the crass in a post about my honorable ancestors...but you're right. Obscenity is one of my greatest gifts. I must let my light shine for all to see.

Alicia said...

Love this post Randi. Now I see where you get it. You are made of some good stuff! It is amazing to hear stories of past generations. They were so tough and we've got it so easy (in some ways). I'm reading a book about some people's lives during WWII and feeling like I lead such an easy, blessed, luxurious life. I can't believe the story about her going blind and still raising 14 kids! Wow. I better stop complaining.

You are a good woman Rand, I bet you could make as many pies as she made mittens any day! Love you.

Jeni said...

Somehow I completely missed this post. But I loved it. I work in the family history centers on Weds nights and b/c there are ZERO patrons, I'm getting a lot of my own family history done and learning so much about my family. Such great stories for me to learn and pass down. That spirit of Elijah stuff is for real, yo. Love you!

Peggy Fisher said...

Glad I found your blog. WONDERFUL! Sarah Lucina Curtis is my husbands great grandmother. Lizzie is his grandmother. (she is the baby) Do you have any other history of Eliza? I've been searching...
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